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A safe place where neurodivergent people and those who love us can learn about our unique relationships.

 

A place where we can understand, accept and even celebrate our relationships.

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You are in the right place if you answer yes to any of these questions.

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Did you recently discover you have neurodivergent family members?

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Do you resonate with social media feeds about being an ADHDer, or Autistic, or even being both as an AuDHDer??

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Has your child started receiving support and you remember similar traits in yourself as a child?

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Or do you recognise those traits in your partner?

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Do you just wish your relationships were easier and more organic?

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Read on to learn more about how I could help you to;

improve communication skills

deepen your understanding

learn strategies to help you build the loving connections you want.

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Insights & Tools for ND Relationships

The Neuro-affirming model is now challenging the traditional medical model with its focus on deficits and weaknesses.  

 

It is so hurtful to be told you are not measuring up to the standards set for ‘normal development’ and communication preferences.  No wonder people delay seeking a formal diagnosis because it can make us feel bad or not good enough!

 

More and more Autistic and ADHDers are producing materials to help us understand their lived experience.   Their contribution enriches our world. 

It is a very liberating and empowering time for many ND people but it can still feel confusing.

 

That is why I have founded the Neurodivergent Relationships Hub.

 It is unique because it draws on lived experience, rigorous professional qualifications in both education and psychology, as well as 2 decades of working with couples to improve their relationship. 

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Why I Do This: 

💡 Neurodivergent relationships are often misunderstood, leading to frustration, miscommunication, and unnecessary heartache.

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💡 Many partners feel disconnected—not because they don’t care, but because they haven’t been given the right tools to navigate their differences.

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💡 My goal is to make expert guidance accessible and proactive, so couples can strengthen their relationships before challenges turn into lasting resentment.

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You have more control than you think. With the right insights and strategies, you can build a deeper, more fulfilling connection. 💙

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Join me inside the Hub to start your journey toward a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

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Inside the Hub, you’ll Find:

✅ Masterclasses & Courses – Practical strategies for ND relationships.

✅ Resources & Self-Help Tools – Understand and embrace neurodiverse dynamics.

✅ Expert Guidance – Insights backed by psychology, education, and lived experience.

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Have you been trying all the standard advice to improve your relationship and it isn’t working?

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Then you need to try something different.

 

Purchase my Masterclass to get more ideas of how to make your unique ND relationship flourish with increased understanding and skills.

 

Want to learn more?   â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹

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Meet Robyn Blake-Mortimer

​Psychologist | Neurodivergent Couples Therapist | Educator​

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I’m Robyn Blake-Mortimer, a Clinical Psychologist and Neurodivergent Couples Therapist. Over the years, I’ve helped hundreds of couples understand their differences, improve communication, and create fulfilling, lasting relationships.

 

Since Covid, the demand for help is outstripping supply in my clinical practice. There are only so many hours in the day and only one of me.  Consequently, I have established this online space to make a bigger difference with more couples.​

 

Once a teacher, always a teacher.  I want to teach useful practical skills and strategies to get more out of your neurodivergent relationship.  I also want to share the information with you sooner rather than later.  It is a big step to seek couples therapy and often it is only after up to 7 years of misunderstanding building up. 

 

Some have referred to it as death by a thousand cuts!  Ouch! Tragically, once therapy starts it can feel like the partner is offering too little, too late.  Don’t let that be your story!  You can start using the skills I teach straight away and see immediate improvements in your communication.

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I founded the Neurodivergent Relationships Hub because I saw a gap—so many ND couples were struggling with miscommunication, unmet expectations, and frustration. Standard relationship advice wasn’t working.​

 

My background in psychology, education, and therapy—combined with my own lived experience—allows me to provide real, practical guidance that helps couples build stronger, more connected relationships.​​

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Most relationships, neurodivergent or not, can benefit from mindful, conscious and purposeful focus and skill building.  You can still have a beautiful relationship, despite certain unique challenges. ​

In some cases, the problems might be much more than what self -help courses or psycho-education can address. If you are feeling unsafe in your relationship please get personalised support with a registered psychologist or therapist in real life, or contact Lifeline, Beyond Blue or 1800 Respect.

I acknowledge the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and acknowledge their continuing connection to land, sea and community. I pay my respects to All First Nations People and their Elders, past and present.

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This website remains the property of Robyn Blake- Mortimer and the Neurodivergent Relationships Hub

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